Black Valentine’s Day is April 14th every year. It comes from South Korea and is a holiday for every single person. On this day, many singles will gather together to comfort and cheer each other up. The scene is very lively. Of course, this is just South Korea's own way of living, and if we live like this, we will miss another opportunity to get out of singlehood. Next, I want to teach you how to ask out the girl you like on Black Valentine’s Day.
1. Don’t have too strong a purpose
Do you want to ask a girl out? There is a prerequisite for being rejected, which is to make girls feel safe enough. Black Valentine's Day is a carnival for singles. This is the reason for the invitation to be full of security. Of course, this is just a reason, and it is not enough to make girls 100% agree to your invitation.
Therefore, there is one more thing to do when asking her out on Black Valentine’s Day, which is to be natural and not deliberate, but it must be carefully planned. For example, there are two completely different invitation methods:
1. Are you free tonight? It’s Black Valentine’s Day. I’ll pick you up at your house and treat you to a big meal.
2. I happened to be busy near your house today. Today is Black Valentine’s Day for singles. Let’s have a meal together later?
Which of the above two methods is better? Many friends may say that the first way to invite a girl is so sincere. In order to have dinner with the girl, you go to the girl’s house to pick her up. You, girl, can definitely see that I am very attentive. In fact, your sincerity and intention are all right, but the wrong way of expressing it is too obvious. You have to know that you and the girl are just friends at the moment. Having too obvious purpose will put pressure on the girl. If the girl treats you If you are not that interested, will the invitation simply fail?
Looking at the second method, it seems more natural and gentle. Even though I know that I like you very much, I still act very calm. That is what everyone often says: "Love must be restrained." Treat the girl as an ordinary friend and invite her out. She will not feel any pressure. Only after the date is made, you will have the opportunity to upgrade the relationship.
2. Fuzzy invitation in advance
What is a vague invitation? A vague invitation is actually to express your feelings to the girl first If you want to date her, but you won't say the specific time, you have to give the girl a thought and elicit your true inner thoughts. In this way, the success rate of inviting the girl is relatively high.
Just like when we were children, our parents often told us to take us out to play, but they never told us when to go. We were full of expectations again and again, and it was very likely that we did not go in the end, but it was also very difficult. happy. For exampleThere are two ways to make an offer:
1. I’ll take you to a coffee bar in the evening, right over at Xinjiekou. I’ll pick you up after work?
2. The first few days The other day I found a cat cafe with a very nice environment. There are some cute cafe cats. Let’s go together if we have time.
I believe that many boys will choose the second invitation method when dating girls on Black Valentine's Day, and girls will often be vague about it. If I have some expectations, I will have a very good chance of making an appointment with you, and in the end I will be with you vaguely. Friends, you understand.
Therefore, while Black Valentine’s Day is still here, if you want to ask a girl out on that day, the most important thing is to make sure that she has no other arrangements and let her have the expectation that you want to ask her out. When the time comes, you If you ask her out again, she will happily agree.
